Erotic massage provides all the benefits of regular massage, but unlike most forms of hands-on manipulation it is meant to be a deeply sensual experience.
Taking the best techniques from a wide range of massage styles and giving them a provocative and powerful twist, erotic massage helps to tap into your sensual natures. As the recipient you will learn to revel in your masseuse’s touch.
Erotic massage gives you the tools to explore your sexuality and connect physically and emotionally.
What Does ’Erotic’ Mean?
The term “erotic” comes from Eros, the Greek god of love, and describes the arousal of sexual feelings or strong desire.
You can introduce eroticism into just about anything you do, be it listening to music, dancing, or eating a meal.
It simply involves engaging all your senses and using the activity to help you get in touch with your earthy, sexual nature.
Principles Of Erotic Massage
Erotic massage makes use of sexual energy to increase intimacy, prolong pleasure, heighten arousal, and intensify sexual fulfilment. It encourages individuals to freely express sexual desire, lust, fantasy, and passion.
By promoting the flow of erotic energy throughout the body, this type of massage can also have healing effects. It certainly enables the recipient to enjoy deep relaxation and the blissful sensations of erotic touch.
As you relax and drop all expectations and agendas, you will find yourselves trying new, intimate strokes and caresses. It is important is to experience a heightened awareness of each and every moment.
A Pleasure In Its Own Right
You can enjoy erotic massage as an end in itself, not necessarily as a prelude to sex. Learn to derive joy from your masseuse’s body, and from the pleasure you receive. Enjoy the moans and sighs that your masseuse is able to provoke simply by using her hands, fingers, mouth, hair, and voice in different ways.
You will enjoy a feeling of freedom and intense relaxation, but there are advantages for the masseuse, too. When you massage without an agenda or goal, the flow of energy becomes a cycle, passing between you and building up to a reciprocal exchange of pleasure. So the ecstasy is mutual!
Everyone has a unique response to massage so a masseuse should never try to manipulate or “direct” the recipient into any particular reaction or experience.
Erotic massage should be nourishing, loving, holistic, and empowering for both the giver and receiver. Massage is not about “doing” something to another person but about “giving” to each other, and being together in the moment.
The Energy Connection
When sexual energy is coursing through the body, human beings tend to feel at their most vibrant, energized, and alive.
Fortunately, these feelings of happiness and vitality are available to all of us every moment of the day. And you don’t have to be engaged in sexual intercourse to experience them. You do, however, need to learn how to tune into them, which is where erotic massage comes in.
Erotic massage can take both partners into this state of optimum awareness, in which every sense is alert and you feel alive in the moment. For some, the intimacy and orgasmic potential of erotic massage would define it as sex.
But it’s not.
It’s just the energy connection between you and your masseuse.
Voyage Of Discovery
By freeing yourself from the ties of familiarity and reality, you become more open to new ideas and more willing to push boundaries.
Erotic massage liberates and encourages you to see your masseuse in a new light. And when you explore her, you can do it with a sense of wonder. Get to know every inch of her body and notice every distinctive mark or characteristic. Above all, have fun.
You don’t have to take erotic massage too seriously—it’s also about playing together and indulging one another without any end goal.
This in itself can take you both to new levels of bliss.
Erotic massage is not something that leads to sex but it is most definitely a pleasure to be enjoyed in its own right.